When people grow an adult will that person lost his naive expectations forever

Kimmo Huosionmaa

I am the person who has been done the things like homepages almost all of my working career, and sometimes I have had social problems with my working fellows. Those homepages or my values are not always the things, what might make me the pet for the boss. The things that I made outside the working area are my own business. When I became the adult I stopped my career as an ass kisser because that doesn’t mean anything.


If I were the nice guy for other people, I always got threats about court and military court, and even if I removed all my texts or photographs those people started to make nice phonecalls or something like that. So I stopped to pleased those persons like my boss because that doesn't mean anything to them. I was always the guy, who was the good target for blaming and looking down. That felt very nice to see those faces and their smiles when my job was to open WC-seats.


Or that was their opinion about the tube employer. Those people think that that is the easiest job what the man can get.  And after that, I knew what kind of people the adult persons might be. I don’t know what they might do in their own workplaces, but the tube employer is the job what I got my salary at that time. Some people thought that is the very nice thing to call my boss to the working area and then say how I should do my jobs. After that, I went to university.  but those days are over 20 years ago are still clear in my eyes.


And I learned that if I keep my mouth shut,  that will only agitate those people. They ever will let anybody to keep their job or say ”sorry” if you will keep your mouth shut. What you do is same to them, because ”they already made their decision”. This text was a caricature the things what brought me to the university and in the life of academic societies and lifestyle.


We are the persons who are working on the Internet all the time. And that’s why we who make all the time work in the net, must have some kind of sense when somebody doesn’t like us. When our boss comes to the working area and starts to say something, we are all very sure that this particular person has to get some instructions about the solution, what he or she must do with us.


When you self-have 20 years experience about working life in the most mission critical area of the environment, you will learn to know if some person has given the instructions to the team leaders, that they must do something, and that is not very wise. When somebody has got the superiority of the boss, that person gives all the support for those people.


Do you know when I know when somebody has taken the phone call to the boss, or there will be high ranking quests in the workplace? The boss will be pumped the full of power and knowledge about the meaning of the superiority, and after that, this particular person comes to your office and tells you that ”you can leave”. This method is very nice to see, and it might look impressive about those people, who have very high training and very good salary.


And that way of given orders or kicks is not the thing, what even means bad. The boss is, of course, the central point of the company, but in the real world, those powerful persons are not so frightened and powerful as they might be. We are all adult persons, and that´s why this doesn’t feel anything or mean anything. Those bosses are probably the best persons what you can get to the telephone, and tell that the work what somebody does is not valuable. In this text is the mixture of the things, what I am noticed in the working life. The similarities of the living persons are the coincidence.