Why doesn't the man want to be "just friend" with the woman?

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Kimmo Huosionmaa


Social relationships are difficult things. When we are thinking about situations, where the woman asks the man to be with her outside the working time, we must say that nobody has to be with workmates outside the working day. There are millions of men, who are got prosecutions because of sexual harassment when they are asked their workmates to visit their homes outside the working day. And we are all making our own decisions, about spending our free time.


Maybe some men think that those "just friends" cases are causing their decrease of grace in the eyes of opponent gender. And if the man visits in the bar with the woman, that might seem, that this man has begun the new relationship, and in that case, the grace would be decreased. Another explanation is that some men think, that in those "want to be just friends" cases would cause by the woman's need to offer herself to other men, by using this workmate as a step for getting close to another man. And some women think that they are more wanted if they have some man standing side of them.


In those cases, the woman thinks, that her real target for interests would want her more if she leaves another man for that other man. When we are thinking about the friendship between men and women, we can say that we are all created or formed as a man and woman. And sexuality is always an element of two genders, do we want it or not. Sexuality is an internal mechanism in the human body, and that is created by remaining of our species.


And in every friendship between man and woman would the question of sex always raise as the talking point sometimes. That makes those relationships quite difficult, because if other person says "no" that will be the disappointment on another part of this friendship. Also, that kind of friendships might be problematic, if another person starts to date with the third person, who is opponent gender. That would mean, that this "friend" just leaves alone, and that first relationship just passes away because the parts of it would not ever meet anymore.

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There is something wrong in Hollywood

Picture is a part of  book cover
Greene murder case
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Kimmo Huosionmaa

Now Hollywood stars have come out in the thing, what is a nightmare for many workers all around the world. This is a question of sexual harassment and using position to make that thing secret. I wonder does this criminal activity continues if that thing doesn't happen in Hollywood? This case shows, how many people use his or her position to cover up those things.

But in this particular case was one lucky thing, that person who came out is a famous person too, and here I sit and think how many cleaners or some other person, who doesn't have money of who is not famous, is sexually or other ways disturbed in that person's workplace? In those cases, the victim might have no dare to go to tell those things to the police.


And here I ask how many rapes have been contracted with money, to make victims of that crime silent? Many people think that nice guy from Hollywood or movie world is nice guys in real life. That would make criminal prosecution process very hard. And those guys can use their publicity as a shield against that prosecution. This is a key logic in many rape cases, what has been kept secret in the life of Hollywood.


The case what brought those things to publicity was one case, where famous actor Marlon Brando claimed to raped his front actress in one film. That case opened the public eye, that in there is something wrong in the film industry. Can an actor and director really slip off prosecutions because they paid the actress for that scene? And are the claims of real murders in movies true? There is no single evidence, that somebody was really murdered in Hollywood normal or Pornographic movies, but the rumors of so-called "snuff" movies are still living.


That term means dirty pornography, what have been sometimes found from some person Internet. Some of that evidence has been links what could easily to remove. So question is, why those people have left those links to a browser, and why they have used companies computer in that action? Those guys could easily slip off by using their own computer, but lucky for investigators that they were the little bit too stupid. So were those links actually a setup, that those people could kick off their companies?


But in the original mean of "snuff" is strictly forbidden violent porn movies and one of the most well-known murder case "Black Dahlia" is sometimes linked with those very sick underground porn. The case of rape in the film made somebody think, that there might be the real background of those rumors, that in some movies people were really killed. But that is not mentioned, was the film "action" or "porn" movies?


And some soldiers have claimed to sell killing movies what are photographed in the Second World war, Korea Vietnam, Afghanistan or Iraqi war. Those rumors do not pertain only American troops. Also, French foreign legion and other mercenaries who were worked in the Far East Africa and members of the South African army and Soviet army have been suspected in that kind of actions. Those rumors began actually in World War One, where soldiers common hobby was to photograph bodies of the killed enemy, and almost every army's soldiers have been suspected that they were taken pictures of killings. And there is the real background of those rumors, at least the German military and Waffen-SS troops took films about their mass executions, but I don't know if those films ever been sold to anybody.


People want to believe good for people, who they see on screen. And if a very famous man rapes somebody, he might say, that other person lies about this thing. They say sometimes that the victim of the crime is someway mentally ill, and they know that will have very strong effect in people mind. Those "the bold and the beautiful" persons might say that those, maybe Mexican victims are "gold miners" who just want to get money from those very wealthy persons. This happens in cases, where the result of the crime is a child. Or those famous people sometimes offer an abortion for solutions of slipping from that crime.