Narcissists and living in the community

Kimmo Huosionmaa

The world "narcissism" will come from the Narcissus, the man who fell love in his mirror image. The narcissists lives in the dream world, where they might believe, that they are some kind of medical doctors or something like that. Many narcissists makes the counterfeits of the graduation papers, or they might tell the people, that their wife or husband is dead or mentally ill, even they are not been in married because those people want to manipulate other persons.


And the stories about the mentally ill spouse will make those people look like very sympathetic. This will help them to slip into the target person social network. Those people don't realize that they do nothing wrong if they slap their wife or children if the catering has made wrong way, and the spoon is the wrong side of the saucer.

The making the counterfeit of graduation papers is not very wise. Those papers involve certificates and their authenticity might be checked from the government. So the papers itself means nothing, and the making the unauthorized copies of other person's graduation papers is illegal. Some of the people think, that they can give evictions to other people by sending the counterfeits of the superintendent's companies, and the reason why some people will become suspicious of some letters, is that they will come only when the person's lawyer or owner of the department is somewhere abroad.

In the newspapers is sometimes the stories about narcissism, the very bad mental disorder. The most visible symptom of that mental disorder is the person is unable to see self as the normal person. This kind of person believes that other persons are below this person. And the narcissist believes that everything, what is done by this person is right. If you have narcissist as the neighbor, this person might keep very noisy parties, but when somebody else keeps parties or even cross water in the wrong time, this neighbor will call the superintendent, that the neighbor was keeping noise.


The other thing what makes the investigators suspect the fake is that there will be some letter from the estate agent in the post box. This kind of methodology is the very nice thing to make people sell their departments at the low price. This kind of things are very serious things, and they will cause the criminal investigation. When we are talking about the usual reason for eviction or problems with paying the rents, the most effective reason for denying person's use of bank accounts is mental disorders.

In the mental institute will the personnel take the symptoms of the patient, and the first thing what should make the investigators suspicious about the information, what the witnesses said during the investigation. That process will end in the courtroom, where the judge makes the decision if the person needs to be patronized because of the psychical conditions is there will be only the symptoms what are in some medical book.


Or there will be only those symptoms, what the person puts the reports. There are many symptoms of the mental disorders, what is not very visible. And if the person will have all the symptoms, what are found in some home doctor's book, they might not look like very reliable. When we are saying, that some people "are cold feelings", we must also see how it will accidents to another people. This is the problem when the person will come to tell the lies in the courtroom. In the real world, the symptoms might be very different than normal people believes.


And even if some person has narcissistic personality, there must be found some criminal activity, if this person will be closed to the mental institute. The criminal activity like domestic violence is the evidence of the person's need for psychiatric care. Another way is that the criminal doesn't understand when this person makes a crime. In some cases where graduation papers have been counterfeited, the person who uses those papers doesn't feel that any crimes have been made. This is the real symptom of the narcissistic personality disorder. The narcissist doesn't understand that the action what that person made is wrong.