What is the situation when you should think that you an adult?

Kimmo Huosionmaa

What is the situation when you should think that you an adult? That is a question, what I sometimes think. The question of when people are old is very old. There is no straight answer to those things, but when you don't anymore scream by hate when your friends leave you outside from restaurant-evening shows that you have grown as an adult person.


Adult persons know, that there is always find a man or woman who doesn't like them.  And they don't afraid their bosses if somebody calls them in the stand. They know that if the boss believes their customer's worlds that might cause separation from that company, but that will not happen every time when the customer asks the boss to support them. And sometimes those bosses lies about separations. They don't always kick people off the company, even if the customer wants them to do that.


What means to be the adult is ever mentioned in any texts, what are published in the media. Being adult in some professions like computing means that we don't hack other systems, and I remember, when I was a young man. I thought that all computer work is some kind of hacking and the world of the Internet is some kind of "Wargames"-movie.


But today I don't think that. When people are young they live very hectic life. All things what they want should happen here right now. They can't wait for anything because they ever must wait. Young people are so sensitive because all things happen for the first time, and that's why they will act like they act. Adult people learn to wait, and they know that the buss will come sooner or later, without making phone calls to the company.


Those phone calls will make a very strong impression to that person's fellows, but that doesn't bring the bus to the stand any faster if the man is calling phone calls to the company.  Patience is a feature, what older people have, and that's why army sniper men who have success are the little bit older than other soldiers. They have the patience to wait for important targets like enemy's officers to their scope.


That kind of persons was used in the Vietnam War as a "Phoenix"- program's operators to eliminate well known Vietcong leaders. That's why elder people are more dangerous than young. They have greater experience of life than young people, and that's why they will make compliments until they have an effect on that company and the target of compliments.


That eliminates change, that this particular person starts some revenge campaigns against that person. People must realize, that if they can't prove their worlds, will that person stand on his or her site. And that might make troubles to complementarian. Also when the person makes a decision to make compliments, he must realize, that the target of that action must not be informed before the reclamation is made. That is because those people might get mad about that compliment.